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Happy New Year 2011

Tuesday, January 04, 2011
Posted by: Mike Smith
Players and Coaches alike,
Happy New Year!  Many reasons to celebrate, like my beloved Spurs taking 9 points out of a possible 9, while not ever playing particularly well!  Still above Chelsea and in the top 4... hope we can stay there.

Just wanted to start out January with an optimistic blog post.  OYSA's Olympic Development Programs have new relationships with the Portland Timbers (boys) and the Portland Rain (girls).  Training is going well and the teams are looking to compete against the other states in the Region in 2 weeks time at the Region IV ODP Championships in Arizona.

We are looking forward to an exciting year of soccer with the Timbers and the Rain.  The Timbers first home game in the new stadium will be on April 14 v Chicago Fire.  Be there!   The Rain season will be annouced in early February and look for their opener to be around Memorial Day in May.  Please check out these links to their respective websites and cheer them both on this year!

http://www.portlandmls2011.com/news/2010/12/timbers-open-inaugural-mls-season-mar-19-mls-cup-champion-colorado-rapids

http://www.portlandrainsc.com/ 

Good Sportsmanship

Thursday, October 07, 2010
I came across a very good article on the All Pro Dad website that had a top 10 list of things that we can do and teach our children about showing sportsmanship. I thought that it was timely and genuine in the midst of our fall season, with kids of all ages playing. Hopefully we can all learn something here and we will all have opportunities to put it into practice while at our next few games!
Happy Sportsmanship :)
Mike
 
 
10 Ways to Show Sportsmanship
Nobody likes to lose. It’s painful and sometimes heartbreaking. It is also every bit as important as winning. A strong character does not come from never experiencing sorrow. Character is built in life’s tough moments. How we handle ourselves during those times says a great deal about what kind of person we are. Proper sportsmanship teaches good behavior and builds strong character. Here are some ways to instill sportsmanship in your child.
1.     Do Not Be That Parent
We all know that parent. Some of us are that parent. The one who screams at the refs from the bleachers. The parent who curses out the coach in front of his child because his kid didn't get played. The one who ridicules the players who aren’t as gifted as others. That parent is an embarrassment and disgrace. Set the example for your child. Unless you have something nice to say, don't say anything at all. Win or lose, offer high praise for the effort. Thank the coaches for their time, which is usually volunteered. Sportsmanship starts with the parent.
2.     Win with Dignity
Winning is easy. It’s fun. It can also breed arrogance and bad behavior like taunting and mocking the losing team.  Not very appealing traits in a person. Show your child to win with dignity—to shake the opposing players’ hands after the game and say, "Good game." To be humble in their success. Coach Dungy is the model for winning with dignity.
3.     Losing with Grace
As stated in the opening paragraph, losing is as important as winning. Without a good dose of rain there would be no beautiful flowers and green plants. The same goes with human life. Support your child at these times with encouragement and praise. Offer to help them practice more. Gently give tips on things that might need to be corrected. Emphasize positive actions as opposed to negative feelings. Hold your head high and be as humble in defeat as in victory.
4.     Respect the Game
The showboat. The hot dog. Yes, they can be entertaining and sometimes funny.  Unless you are the Harlem Globetrotters, it really doesn’t have a place in organized sports.  Teach your kids it’s ok to be happy. To celebrate. To enjoy themselves...because it is only a game. But they need to do so with respect for the game and the other players. Walter Payton and Barry Sanders were great examples of how to deeply love and play a sport with class, heart and style.
5.     Follow the Rules
Remember how John McEnroe used to go ballistic when a call didn’t go his way? He became famous for his ridiculous temper more than his skill as a tennis player. Rules are in place to make the game fair. To keep order. Teach your child to follow them and to respect those that are there to implement them. Be a good sport and acknowledge that not every call will go your way.
6.     Point Out Examples
Nothing is better than watching a football game on a crisp Fall day with your son. Taking your daughter out to watch the World Cup. Great times and memories. Also use those moments to point out examples of both bad and good sportsmanship. You are sure to see both. Visual examples are always an excellent learning tool.
7.     Include Your Teammates
No person is an island. You cannot do it all alone. The ball hog is never a wanted member of any team. Kobe Bryant learned that lesson and now wears championship rings. If your child is very talented at a particular sport, that is great. Teach him to help the other kids who might not be as strong. To include them and to use the abilities they bring to the benefit of the team. One child might be a great ball handler. Another might play excellent defensive. Rare is the child who excels at all facets of the game. It’s a team and all parts are required to win.
8.     Don’t Let Your Child Win Every Time
It’s hard not to do so. They are so adorable and you don’t want to see them sad. You are playing checkers and you let her win every single time. Playing the great basketball game of H-O-R-S-E with your son and you intentionally miss the shot that would give him an “E.”  As tough as it is, you need to win the game at least sometimes. How can they learn how to lose and be a good sport if they never do? They will be getting better and beating you on their own soon enough anyway.
9.     Encourage Strong Effort
Having good sportsmanship also means having a strong work ethic. “Practice? We’re talking about practice?” was Allen Iverson’s infamous outburst after being drilled for skipping practice. Nobody is above the team. Even the biggest stars. Teach your children to always give their best effort. At practice as well as the game. To earn the respect of the other players and coaches. Anything less is not acceptable and should not be tolerated.
10. It’s Just A Game
Children all over the world are sent into war. They are starving. They have horrible things done to them. Sports are only games. They are for fun. Teach your child the bigger picture...the perspective that it's a blessing to be out playing games and enjoying life. Teach them to appreciate it. It's hard to be anything but a great sport when you are humbled and thankful for just the opportunity to play.
 
 
Courtesy of All Pro Dad website. Other good ideas about parenting and talking to your kids are available there too.

I am so excited about the upcoming World Cup!  It is a shame that my beloved Scotland are not there, but I will be avidly supporting the US, my second home, especially against England!

Here is a related article about the US roster I thought you would all like, extolling the virtues of ODP, being that 27 of the 30 named to the initial squad played ODP.


US Youth Soccer ODP a Common Thread Among Players Named to U.S. World Cup Roster





 


World Cup Fever Strikes

Tuesday, May 11, 2010
US Men's National Team Coach, Bob Bradley announces preliminary roster for World Cup!

Today is the day!  David Cameron is announced as new UK Prime Minister, but more importantly, each nation playing in the World Cup had to announce their 30 man roster today and there were some surprises... Heskey in (England), Ronaldhino out (Brazil)!  World Cup fever is upon us...

30 players selected and half that number come from Region IV... wow!  Read more about it here and predict who you think the US will play in the second round, quarter's, semi's and final!

http://soccernet.espn.go.com/world-cup/?cc=5901&ver=us 

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